tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post4379707009516088775..comments2024-01-21T04:33:24.446-08:00Comments on lori times five: why i'll never complain about fog againLori annhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860428306713379828noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-51516695987311230842010-08-07T00:35:33.082-07:002010-08-07T00:35:33.082-07:00That was lovely to read - you have explained all t...That was lovely to read - you have explained all those complex emotions with poetry. The weather, the fire, the living in oneself with the love of family. I hope everything will turn out well for your mother and all of you.Spiny Marshmallowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03304283055806289965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-38594009954895958262010-08-06T22:06:46.299-07:002010-08-06T22:06:46.299-07:00'my home is in me.
my mom will be at home wher...'my home is in me.<br />my mom will be at home where ever she is because she'll always have herself and us in her'<br /><br />ah, lori, to me there is something so true and so comforting and so sad, all at the same time. your words are so clear.<br /><br />there are so many metaphors in this post: fog as protection being my favorite. what covers also protects. <br /><br />still, i am wishing you sunlight. that is hard to go without the sun. you know where i am and i wonder how i will see things three weeks from now. <br /><br />ps. i'm not going anywhere, friend!<br />xoxokjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15122196887043345981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-81828700601689077922010-08-06T06:54:16.315-07:002010-08-06T06:54:16.315-07:00Welcome home!
Home is where the love lives. It&#...Welcome home!<br /><br />Home is where the love lives. It's a good place to be.<br /><br />I'm still on the road but I'm taking home with me. Peace.Butternut Squashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14703748547994069092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-14533248509312222502010-08-06T06:16:35.064-07:002010-08-06T06:16:35.064-07:00Lori,
What an intensly, moving piece of writing. Y...Lori,<br />What an intensly, moving piece of writing. You captured the inner turmoil and conflict of a "child" transitioning to "parenting" their parent. Memories of how they WERE collide with the reality of how they ARE now. So much to process; so much to handle - making sure Mom has the quality of life and care she deserves and that you want for her. In the darkest days of my mom's illness, my greatest comfort was my sisters and brother. My mom used to tell us that the greatest gift she ever gave us was one another - and she was right. I am so happy that you have yours to help shoulder all that you are coping with.<br /><br />And it seems that you have made peace with the most important point of all ... letting go of that over which you have no control. Hugs to you sweet Lori.Lynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15254709835001092835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-44977349027243383902010-08-04T12:23:57.363-07:002010-08-04T12:23:57.363-07:00Hi Lori, it's strange how fog can clear a head...Hi Lori, it's strange how fog can clear a headful of thoughts and worries and then wrap around as if it were a comfort blanket*!*Bimbimbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12427788003822538655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-66172339564944998602010-08-04T02:14:59.087-07:002010-08-04T02:14:59.087-07:00I am so looking forward to coming to america and s...I am so looking forward to coming to america and seeing all the fog, but looks like my trip is being put back to next year.Sammihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18402188311013328392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-37793676397503338972010-08-04T00:51:21.752-07:002010-08-04T00:51:21.752-07:00Wow, what a cool post!
It's funny sometimes w...Wow, what a cool post! <br />It's funny sometimes what it is that makes us realize that everything in life has it's justification. Even fog. <br />And also funny how a long drive on an empty stomach can help us realize many of those life lessons, isn't it. <br />HUGS<br />MichiMichaelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06415854807112777330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-62303552878016199882010-08-03T21:53:50.642-07:002010-08-03T21:53:50.642-07:00Natsy,
oh I don't know what i'd do without...Natsy,<br />oh I don't know what i'd do without Lindy and Michael, they are without a doubt the way to get through this. And i do believe they are both the kindest, most caring people i know. So i think your right, my Mom is awesome!<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Tracy,<br />thank you sweetie, and good luck. If only we were like turtles and carried our homes on our backs. I know you'll find the right place.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Marianne,<br />i'll do just that this coming weekend! i'm really looking forward to it (resting). But always counting blessings in between. thank you.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />kj, <br />you've helped me so much, talking and sharing about your mom. Thank you for being such a good friend, and please don't do anysuch thing! have fun in Ptown, say hi to Mary for me okay?!<br />lots of love.Lori annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02860428306713379828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-21338063525573257092010-08-03T20:36:46.320-07:002010-08-03T20:36:46.320-07:00my dearest friend, there is so much i want to say ...my dearest friend, there is so much i want to say and it is too late for me tonight, so i will just say how honored and proud i always am of who you are. you are an amazing wonderful person, lori.<br /><br />i will be back. in fact, if you don't mind, i'm thinking i will not be leaving...<br /><br />♥<br />kjkjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15122196887043345981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-60155506162701645952010-08-03T13:11:41.165-07:002010-08-03T13:11:41.165-07:00My what a day with so much emotions.....
Sometimes...My what a day with so much emotions.....<br />Sometimes you need an eye opener like this to feel blessed again. We know we are but sometimes we need to be reminded.....<br />Take care rest from all these emotions and enjoy that damp air ;)<br /><br />♥♥♥<br />>M<mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09285970503295829713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-22333134280910933192010-08-03T11:34:27.441-07:002010-08-03T11:34:27.441-07:00This is so beautiful. I am moving this month and l...This is so beautiful. I am moving this month and looking for a place, so the concept of "home" has really stuck out to me lately. It's hard to carry that idea of home with me since I rely on so many exterior factors... but your post made me realize that I will make my home wherever because I am capable of doing so.<br /><br />Fantastic post. And fire in Southern California always makes my heart and my throat hurt - it makes me so sad.Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07477498671080132176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-5367770746387606512010-08-03T03:29:46.956-07:002010-08-03T03:29:46.956-07:00I am glad you three went together at least. I am w...I am glad you three went together at least. I am wondering if your siblings are as beautiful as you?If so, then your Mama has done done a pearler of a job. I understand that it is a rough journey for all of you.<br /><br /> Sending love as always.xx♥Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12919764140075852854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-11781236341674486552010-08-02T21:33:31.551-07:002010-08-02T21:33:31.551-07:00Bhavana,
always, i'll try my best, i was prepa...Bhavana,<br />always, i'll try my best, i was prepared to run from that fire if i had to! Thank you for such kind words.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Lolo,<br />that was beautiful and so much appreciated. I don't know if i'm those things, but i want to believe it. You are a true sweetheart. thank you.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Annie,<br />yes, i know you do relate, and understand. How come these days (the rough ones) seem to have so many more hours than others? i really appreciate your words, thank you so much.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Robyn,<br />Honestly i never thought i'd feel this way about the fog, it's been relentless. But feeling so trapped and hot (and scared) i wanted to hug it when i got away from the fire area and back to the beach.<br />I am the oldest, my sister and brother are 2 and 5 years younger than me. i am the boss. (heehee,not really, my sister Lindy is a thousand times more competent than me). thank you for all your kind words my sweet friend.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Rosaria,<br />i really like that, we are only as far away as our hearts distance ourselves. I'll keep that in my head, and heart. thank you.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Diana,<br />Thank you so much for the hug. I'm hoping for you that you do (heal). I don't know what i'd do if my sister or brother and i weren't talking. I NEED them. They are both incredible people.Lori annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02860428306713379828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-43749371782639413842010-08-02T20:17:40.973-07:002010-08-02T20:17:40.973-07:00Hugs...what in intense time. Sibling relationships...Hugs...what in intense time. Sibling relationships are so multifaceted...I'm trying to heal one right now. Lots of love to you!Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03969389246865883205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-61552910538954366472010-08-02T19:09:12.592-07:002010-08-02T19:09:12.592-07:00Oh my, you are going through a lot of adjustments....Oh my, you are going through a lot of adjustments. Best of luck to all of you for the decision you must make and the support you need to give each other. You will always have your mom by your side, and she will have you by her side. We are only as far as our hearts are willing to distance themeselves. <br /><br />Yes, bless the fog and the cool breezes.Rosaria Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03133147851332084180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-4649782807262481972010-08-02T16:41:11.940-07:002010-08-02T16:41:11.940-07:00Oh Lori I can feel your pain as I understand the t...Oh Lori I can feel your pain as I understand the time you are experiencing.<br />It is true that home is where the heart lives and the heart lives inside of you. <br /><br />I don't understand fog in summer as that's not something that I have ever experienced. I love the photos... they look beautiful.<br />Bushfires I do understand, especially in Summer :(<br /><br />I didn't know that you have a brother. It's nice that there are three of you to share this time.<br /><br />take care of your heart<br />love to you<br />x Robyn<br /><br />PS... it's okay to complain about the fog... I think that would drive me nuts after too long.<br />I do like the idea though that it might be preventing fires :)xxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12600470311819511684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-45077838672708122892010-08-02T15:10:27.902-07:002010-08-02T15:10:27.902-07:00Lori, it sounds like a rough day. I know, and I ca...Lori, it sounds like a rough day. I know, and I can relate with the family stuff. So many emotions.<br />Love the fog, love the sun, love your life. Big hugs. xoxoAnniehttp://blissful-bohemian.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-91407112698959774882010-08-02T14:37:26.932-07:002010-08-02T14:37:26.932-07:00What this post says to me is you have a sense of p...What this post says to me is you have a sense of place. <br /><br />You know who you are and you speak from your heart, always.<br /><br />I know you and your family are strong together and mom will be in good hands. You would see to nothing less.<br /><br />The longer drive gave you extra time to sit with yourself and go within. In the bigger picture, you realized it's okay to let the fog embrace you after driving past the ashes of 'what was.'<br /><br />You are a keen observer and lover of life. I'm so glad I'm getting to know you ;)<br /><br />xo♥<br />Lolostudio lolohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15363808478293833466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-43140675982370013342010-08-02T11:25:43.474-07:002010-08-02T11:25:43.474-07:00I love this
my home is in me.
my mom will be at ...I love this <br /><br /><i>my home is in me.<br />my mom will be at home where ever she is because she'll always have herself and us in her. it has to be so. and once i thought all this on the long drive home i realized i was suddenly starving.</i><br /><br />be safepink dogwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00938574807898718022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-54175741006044904442010-08-02T11:01:55.444-07:002010-08-02T11:01:55.444-07:00Hi Helen,
thank you so much! oh i love my brother ...Hi Helen,<br />thank you so much! oh i love my brother and sister so much sometimes it hurts. Especially when i want only everything to be good for them, always.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Geli,<br />and on top of all that i felt terribly guilty sweating miserably while stuck in the traffic fire heat, but look at all the poor firemen. <br />it is so helpful to me to know you know what i'm feeling with my mom. you and your words mean the world to me.<br /><br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />Amanda,<br />thank you so much. I'm so glad you understood what i was trying to say, sorting out so many emotions...feelings...i really really appreciate your words. And it's true, we have been so unpredictable weather wise!Lori annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02860428306713379828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-87883775177078519852010-08-02T10:19:00.809-07:002010-08-02T10:19:00.809-07:00what a wonderful weaving of that connection betwee...what a wonderful weaving of that connection between the chaotic weather of southern cal and your emotions -- fog, fire, sun, mist, cold, dry........reflecting sadness, confusion, worry (not to forget hunger!) a really beautiful piece. <br /><br />what a wise statement lori - your home is in you, yes, and your mom's home is in her. no matter what you and your sibs decide, it will be good. <br /><br />sending love my friend xoxo ♡Amanda Summerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00942636545948440422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-39210729429845984362010-08-02T09:39:24.814-07:002010-08-02T09:39:24.814-07:00Oh Lori, I read this and thought the same! Good yo...Oh Lori, I read this and thought the same! Good you have had your blessed fog, keeping the hills moist, at least a little. Driving to your mom will always be hurtful (it was for me,too), but as you said, she will never be alone. She will now live more or less in her memories, not much you can add but sometimes showing her you are there helps.<br />Back to the fires - keep away from them!! Or jump into the ocean!<br />Thinking of you constantly! GeliAngelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06484336744673299416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163144501473367922.post-31363104138783260512010-08-02T09:25:13.248-07:002010-08-02T09:25:13.248-07:00Hello there! So many emotions, I could relate to ...Hello there! So many emotions, I could relate to each. Especially the familiar sibling ambivalence thing. So true ... your mother is in you and you in her ... no matter what! We are in the height of fire season here on the high desert too!Helenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16619199535376925989noreply@blogger.com